A Friendsmas to Remember: A Night of Candlelit Elegance and Joyful Memories

As the festive season unfolds, I recently decided to gather a few close friends for a "Friendsmas" celebration. With the holidays being different for everyone and life throwing its unpredictable curves, I felt the need for us to come together, create new memories, and take control of how we celebrate this special time of year. Join me in reliving an unforgettable Friendsmas celebration, complete with a romantic candle and bow-themed table decor. Discover how a simple gathering turned into a night of laughter, storytelling, and dancing, embodying the true spirit of the holidays.

Friendsmas Table Decor at Nisos Prime

Before I dive deep into this article, I want to first explain what “Friendsmas” is. Friendsmas" is a blend of "friends" and "Christmas," and it refers to a Christmas or holiday celebration specifically organized for friends rather than family. This gathering is an opportunity for friends to come together to celebrate the festive season, often in addition to or in place of traditional family gatherings. Friendsmas can include many of the same activities and traditions associated with Christmas, such as exchanging gifts, sharing a meal, or engaging in holiday-themed games and activities.

The concept of Friendsmas is particularly popular among those who may be away from their families during the holidays, or who want to acknowledge and celebrate the special bond they share with their friends. It's a way to create new traditions and memories with a chosen family of close friends. The tone and activities of Friendsmas can vary greatly depending on the group, ranging from casual and low-key to elaborate and festive.

Friendsmas was more than just a get-together; it was a canvas for creating an ambience that mirrored our warmth and camaraderie. The theme of our table decor was candles and bows, a nod to the current trend, yet timeless in its appeal. The flickering candlelight cast a soft glow over the table, creating a setting that was both sexy and romantic, perfectly capturing the essence of the evening. Adding a personal touch, I tied green velvet dinner napkins into elegant bows, further elevating the table's charm.

This was my practice round. I ended up using green velvet napkins and a green ribbon to make the bow.

Our white elephant gift exchange was a delightful highlight. Each present was chosen with a mix of humor and thoughtfulness, leading to bursts of laughter and surprise as each gift was revealed. It was heartwarming to see the care and creativity that went into each choice.

We also shared our favorite Christmas movies around the table, sparking conversations about cherished holiday memories and beloved festive traditions. It was amazing to see how each story brought us closer, weaving a tapestry of shared experiences and laughter.

First to pick a gift @jzpthomas

As the night progressed, our Friendsmas celebration seamlessly transitioned from a heartwarming dinner at @nisosprime to dancing the night away in the lounge. The energy was electric, and the joy of being together was palpable. It was a Friendsmas I’ll never forget.

Still basking in the afterglow of our celebration, I am reminded of what truly matters. Moments like these underscore the essence of joy, friendship, and resilience. It was a celebration not just of the holiday season, but of the enduring spirit of camaraderie and happiness we find in each other's company.

This year, as we navigate the holidays, my focus on intentionality has led to creating new, meaningful memories. To everyone celebrating in your own unique way, may your holiday season be filled with joy, love, and unforgettable moments. Here’s to friends, laughter, and the memories we create together.

Happy Holidays!


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Akeshi Akinseye

Akeshi Akinseye is the founder and CEO of Kesh Events and is the leading expert in the wedding and event industry on all things celebrations.

She is widely regarded as One of the best Wedding planners in America by Brides, Top 5 wedding vendors in the world by WEDLUXE, top wedding planner in Chicago by PartySlate and more. 

Her insights and work have been featured in national publications like Brides, PartySlate, Modern Luxury Weddings, Inside Weddings, Yahoo, ESPN, New York Times etc and she appears regularly in media outlets like ABC, The Tribune and more.

She is the author of the best-selling book, The Art of Floral And Event Design” and founder and editor of celebrations and lifestyle magazine, The Art of Celebrating. Her creativity, keen eye, attention to detail and knack for perfection is what her clients love about her. She brings the art of creativity and personalization to every single event making her the best at what she does. Akeshi honors the individual styles of her clients and she continually strives to make every experience one to remember.

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