October Musings: What I’m Loving This Month

Welcome to October’s Monthly Musings—a curated edit of what I’m loving right now across fashion, entertaining, and stylish living. This month’s picks lean into cozy elegance, meaningful gatherings, and thoughtful details that elevate everyday life.

Photo by Amy Anaiz

Monthly Musings: What I’m Loving Right Now

October always feels like a fresh canvas. The air cools, routines shift, and I find myself craving pieces and rituals that ground me while still sparking joy. From cozy fashion staples to entertaining must-haves and home accents, here’s my October edit of what I’m loving right now.

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Fall Fashion Staples

The season calls for layering—think cozy blazers, light sweaters, and statement outerwear that carry you seamlessly from city strolls to chic dinner dates. These are the elevated pieces I’m loving right now:

What I’m loving:

  • Fendi FF Wool & Cashmere Poncho
    A forever classic that blends timeless luxury with cozy comfort. Ideal for travel, effortless layering, or elevating even the simplest look.
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  • Veronica Beard Miller Dickey Jacket in Heathered Sand
    A polished blazer that defines quiet luxury. Versatile enough to wear with denim for daytime sophistication or tailored trousers for evening refinement.
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  • Veena Faux Leather Skirt by Cinq à Sept
    Sleek and modern, this dark sepia faux leather skirt is a true day-to-night essential. Pair it with soft knits for an effortless daytime look, or style with a blouse and heels for a polished evening edge.
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  • Totême Signature Jacket
    A minimalist staple reimagined with architectural lines. This cropped wool jacket-sweater hybrid is a refined layering piece designed for understated elegance.
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Entertaining & Hosting

Fall is my favorite time to gather—whether it’s a cozy brunch at home, an intimate dinner party, or cocktails with friends under candlelight. It’s the little details that transform these moments into something memorable, and this season I’m leaning into timeless pieces that bring warmth, style, and intention to the table.

What I’m loving:

  • Mango Wood Scallop Serving Board
    Handcrafted with scalloped edges, this warm wood board is perfect for charcuterie, seasonal spreads, or simply as a decorative accent when not in use. A versatile entertaining staple you’ll reach for again and again.
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  • Bormioli Rocco America ’20s Cocktail Coupe Glasses
    Inspired by the glamour of the Jazz Age, these coupes blend vintage sophistication with modern quality. Featuring a diamond-cut base and crystal-clear brilliance, they’re the perfect vessel for champagne, martinis, or craft cocktails. A set of four that instantly elevates your barware collection.
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  • Octavia Large Marble Board with Cheese Knives
    A chic foundation for serving, this marble board with coordinating cheese knives is equal parts functional and beautiful. Ideal for holiday gatherings or intimate nights in, it brings a touch of luxury to every spread.
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  • Gold Taper Candle Holder
    A sculptural accent that adds warmth and ambiance to your tablescape. Whether styled solo or in multiples, these holders bring just the right amount of glow to dining and cocktail settings.
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Home Décor & Stylish Living

The shift in seasons always inspires me to refresh little corners at home. Cozy textures, warm fragrance, and thoughtful accents instantly elevate the mood—making spaces feel both inviting and refined.

What I’m loving:

  • Cozy Neutral Throw
    A timeless layering piece that adds texture and warmth to any room. Drape it across a sofa, accent chair, or bed for that effortless, lived-in luxury.
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  • Rounded Dual Handled Vase
    Sculptural and modern, this vase is a statement on its own or paired with fresh florals. A versatile accent that adds understated elegance to consoles, shelves, or dining tables.
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  • Adcock Faux Ficus Tree with White Planter (AllModern)
    A lush, low-maintenance way to bring the outdoors in. This faux ficus adds height, greenery, and sophistication—without the upkeep.
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  • Williams Sonoma Essential Oils Fragrance Diffuser, Spiced Chestnut
    Nothing sets the tone for fall quite like scent. This diffuser blends notes of spiced chestnut and warm woods, filling your space with seasonal coziness.
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So that’s my October edit. From fashion and entertaining to home and stylish living, I hope this curation inspires you to add a little extra style and joy to your month.

➝ Shop everything from October’s Monthly Musings on my ShopMy page, my Amazon storefront, and learn more on akeshiakinseye.com.

xx,
Akeshi

P.S. My new book, The Art of Celebrating: Inspiration and Ideas for Meaningful Gatherings, is now available for presale. This has truly been a labor of love—filled with ideas, stories, and inspiration to help you create meaningful celebrations of your own. I would love your support in pre-ordering here!

Akeshi Akinseye

Akeshi Akinseye is the founder and CEO of Kesh Events and is the leading expert in the wedding and event industry on all things celebrations.

She is widely regarded as One of the best Wedding planners in America by Brides, Top 5 wedding vendors in the world by WEDLUXE, top wedding planner in Chicago by PartySlate and more. 

Her insights and work have been featured in national publications like Brides, PartySlate, Modern Luxury Weddings, Inside Weddings, Yahoo, ESPN, New York Times etc and she appears regularly in media outlets like ABC, The Tribune and more.

She is the author of the best-selling book, The Art of Floral And Event Design” and founder and editor of celebrations and lifestyle magazine, The Art of Celebrating. Her creativity, keen eye, attention to detail and knack for perfection is what her clients love about her. She brings the art of creativity and personalization to every single event making her the best at what she does. Akeshi honors the individual styles of her clients and she continually strives to make every experience one to remember.

http://www.akeshiakinseye.com
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