Hello December: A Season of Reflection, Gratitude & Joy

December is, by far, one of my favorite months. There’s something magical about this time of year — a quiet beauty that invites reflection, gratitude, and celebration.

It’s the final chapter of the year, and with it comes a natural pause — a moment to look back on everything the past months have held. The wins, the missteps, the lessons, the growth, and the people who stood by you through it all.

Akeshi Akinseye December reflections

Photography by Amy Anaiz

A Time to Reflect

December isn’t just about the glow of Christmas lights or the anticipation of presents under the tree — it’s about reflecting on life itself.

It’s a time to ask:
What did I learn this year?
Who showed up for me — and how did I show up for others?
What am I ready to carry forward, and what am I finally ready to let go?

For me, this season is a reminder that growth and grace often come hand in hand. It’s okay to celebrate the wins loudly, to acknowledge the challenges quietly, and to embrace every part of the journey with gratitude.

Luxury lifestyle December journal

The Art of Celebrating

The holidays are, at their heart, about connection — gathering around tables, sharing stories, laughter, and love. It’s about celebrating not just the big moments, but the everyday beauty that makes life rich and meaningful.

Whether you’re hosting a dinner, decorating your home, or simply spending time with loved ones, I hope you embrace the art of celebrating — finding joy in the simple, intentional moments that bring warmth to your heart and light to your home.

What I’m Excited About This Month

There’s so much to be grateful for and even more to look forward to as we close the year — and I’m truly excited to share a few highlights with you:

The Launch of My Third Book
The Art of Celebrating: Inspiration and Ideas for Meaningful Gatherings is finally almost here — a true labor of love, filled with stories, design inspiration, and practical tips to help you celebrate life beautifully and intentionally.

Speaking at Engage!25 Santa Barbara
I’m honored to be returning as a speaker at Engage!25 Santa Barbara, joining an incredible lineup of creative leaders from around the world. Engage! has always been a space for connection, innovation, and inspiration, and I can’t wait to be part of the conversation again.

Advisory Board Member for Kindred Collective
I’m thrilled to join the Kindred Collective advisory board and to be one of the discussion leaders for their January event — an experience built on community, collaboration, and creative growth.

Holiday entertaining and hosting inspiration

Explore my curated gift guides and seasonal edits → ShopMy Gift Guides

If you’re still in gifting mode (or just love discovering thoughtful finds), I’ve curated a few of my favorite holiday gift guides — from timeless home décor to entertaining essentials and little luxuries for everyone on your list.

Explore my curated gift guides and seasonal edits → ShopMy Gift Guides

Wishing You a Joyful December

As we close out the year, may this month remind you of how far you’ve come and all that’s still possible ahead.
Here’s to reflection, renewal, and celebrating life with intention, gratitude, and love.

Happy December,
xx Akeshi


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Akeshi Akinseye

Akeshi Akinseye is the founder and CEO of Kesh Events and is the leading expert in the wedding and event industry on all things celebrations.

She is widely regarded as One of the best Wedding planners in America by Brides, Top 5 wedding vendors in the world by WEDLUXE, top wedding planner in Chicago by PartySlate and more. 

Her insights and work have been featured in national publications like Brides, PartySlate, Modern Luxury Weddings, Inside Weddings, Yahoo, ESPN, New York Times etc and she appears regularly in media outlets like ABC, The Tribune and more.

She is the author of the best-selling book, The Art of Floral And Event Design” and founder and editor of celebrations and lifestyle magazine, The Art of Celebrating. Her creativity, keen eye, attention to detail and knack for perfection is what her clients love about her. She brings the art of creativity and personalization to every single event making her the best at what she does. Akeshi honors the individual styles of her clients and she continually strives to make every experience one to remember.

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