A Letter from Akeshi: Reflecting on 2025 with Intention and Gratitude

As this year comes to a close, I find myself less focused on measuring milestones and more drawn to reflecting on what 2025 truly asked of me.

Photography by Amy Anaiz

This was a year that required clarity.
Clarity around where my energy belongs, who I serve best, and how I want both my work and my life to feel. It was not about doing more. It was about doing what mattered, with intention.

If you have followed along this year, thank you for being here. This journal has become a place to pause, reflect, and share the deeper layers behind the work.

Explore more reflections and essays in my Journal for thoughtful insights on celebration, creativity, and life well lived.

Photo by Reem Photography

Elevation Through Intention

2025 was a year of elevation, but not the loud kind. It was quiet, grounded, and deliberate.

Through Kesh Events, I watched our work continue to evolve into deeply personal, high-touch experiences. Weddings, celebrations, and gatherings that honored culture, story, and intention. Beauty was always present, but meaning led the way.

This year reminded me that true luxury is not about excess. It is about care. It is about restraint. It is about making people feel seen and considered.

Interested in how we design intentional, luxury celebrations? Explore our work and philosophy through Kesh Events.

Celebrations That Mean Something

Through The Art of Celebrating, I was reminded again and again why celebrations matter.

Celebration is not about perfection or performance. It is about marking life as it happens. Honoring milestones, gathering people we love, and creating moments that feel intentional, personal, and true. Whether it is a wedding, a birthday, a quiet dinner, or an everyday moment elevated with care, celebration gives us permission to pause and be present.

This philosophy shapes everything I create. It informs the events I design, the stories I share, and the way I move through my own life. At its heart, The Art of Celebrating is an invitation to live with more intention and to recognize that life itself is worth celebrating, often and well.

If celebrating with meaning and intention resonates with you, grab a copy of my book, The Art of Celebrating, and explore how to honor life’s moments, both big and small

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Authorship, Voice, and Leadership

2025 also marked a deeper step into authorship and thought leadership.

Writing and speaking on stages has allowed me to articulate what years of experience have taught me about celebration, hospitality, leadership, and living with intention. It shifted my work from simply showing what I create to sharing how and why I create it.

This year affirmed that my voice matters beyond beautiful settings. It belongs in conversations about how we gather, how we lead, and how we choose to mark meaningful moments in our lives.

Photo by Amy Anaiz

The Quiet Wins That Shaped the Year

Some of the most meaningful growth this year never made it to social media.

Learning to rest without guilt.
Setting boundaries without explanation.
Choosing depth over constant visibility.
Allowing joy, grief, and stillness to coexist.

These moments of refinement changed how I work and how I live. They reminded me that growth does not always look like expansion. Sometimes it looks like clarity.

Photo by Amy Anaiz

Looking Ahead with Gratitude

As I step into a new year, my intention remains simple.

To continue creating with purpose.
To celebrate with meaning.
To design a life and body of work that feels aligned, thoughtful, and deeply human.

Thank you for being part of this journey. Your presence, encouragement, and support make this work possible.

With love and gratitude,
Akeshi

Akeshi Akinseye

Akeshi Akinseye is the founder and CEO of Kesh Events and is the leading expert in the wedding and event industry on all things celebrations.

She is widely regarded as One of the best Wedding planners in America by Brides, Top 5 wedding vendors in the world by WEDLUXE, top wedding planner in Chicago by PartySlate and more. 

Her insights and work have been featured in national publications like Brides, PartySlate, Modern Luxury Weddings, Inside Weddings, Yahoo, ESPN, New York Times etc and she appears regularly in media outlets like ABC, The Tribune and more.

She is the author of the best-selling book, The Art of Floral And Event Design” and founder and editor of celebrations and lifestyle magazine, The Art of Celebrating. Her creativity, keen eye, attention to detail and knack for perfection is what her clients love about her. She brings the art of creativity and personalization to every single event making her the best at what she does. Akeshi honors the individual styles of her clients and she continually strives to make every experience one to remember.

http://www.akeshiakinseye.com
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