Compassionate Marketing: Embracing Sensitivity in Mother's and Father's Day Campaigns

As we approach the seasons marked by Mother's Day and Father's Day, it’s essential for marketers to approach their campaigns with sensitivity and understanding. Having faced personal loss, I've become acutely aware of how typical marketing strategies can unintentionally cause pain. This post explores how small shifts in marketing approaches can make a significant difference for those grieving during these times.

For many, Mother's Day and Father's Day are beautiful opportunities to show appreciation and love. However, for others, these days are poignant reminders of loss. Every year, as March and April roll around, the onslaught of Mother's Day marketing begins—emails and advertisements urging us to "shower your mother with flowers" flood our inboxes.

For someone like me, who lost my mother five years ago, these messages bring a complicated mix of sorrow and nostalgia—not the celebratory spirit they intend. The relentless nature of these campaigns can serve as a stark reminder of what's missing, turning a well-meaning gesture into a painful echo of absence. The constant stream of promotions can feel like a punch to the gut for those of us who are navigating life without a loved one.

A Call for Empathetic Marketing:

As we aim to celebrate parents, it's crucial to also recognize that not everyone's experience is the same. Here are a few ways marketers can practice more empathy:

  1. Offer an Opt-Out Feature: Simple yet effective. Allowing customers to opt-out of Mother's Day or Father's Day emails is a considerate approach that can prevent emotional distress. Sending a pre-campaign message that gives subscribers the choice to not receive Mother's or Father's Day content can make a world of difference.

  2. Acknowledge Different Experiences: Integrating messages that recognize the diverse experiences of your audience can make your campaigns more inclusive. Acknowledging that these days can be difficult for some isn’t about dampening the celebratory spirit but about respecting the complex feelings around the day.

  3. Promote Inclusivity: Extend the narrative to encompass all forms of parental love—celebrate mother figures, father figures, mentors, and guardians. This broader approach not only increases the relevance of the content but also deepens the connection with a wider audience.

As marketers and communicators, it’s our responsibility to ensure that our messages not only reach but also resonate positively with our audience. By adopting a more thoughtful and inclusive approach to Mother's Day and Father's Day marketing, we can honor all aspects of these special days without deepening the sorrow for some.

Have you ever experienced a moment when marketing felt more intrusive than inviting? Let's make marketing more inclusive and compassionate. Share your thoughts and join the conversation on how we can make marketing more empathetic for everyone. Join the conversation here.


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Akeshi Akinseye

Akeshi Akinseye is the founder and CEO of Kesh Events and is the leading expert in the wedding and event industry on all things celebrations.

She is widely regarded as One of the best Wedding planners in America by Brides, Top 5 wedding vendors in the world by WEDLUXE, top wedding planner in Chicago by PartySlate and more. 

Her insights and work have been featured in national publications like Brides, PartySlate, Modern Luxury Weddings, Inside Weddings, Yahoo, ESPN, New York Times etc and she appears regularly in media outlets like ABC, The Tribune and more.

She is the author of the best-selling book, The Art of Floral And Event Design” and founder and editor of celebrations and lifestyle magazine, The Art of Celebrating. Her creativity, keen eye, attention to detail and knack for perfection is what her clients love about her. She brings the art of creativity and personalization to every single event making her the best at what she does. Akeshi honors the individual styles of her clients and she continually strives to make every experience one to remember.

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